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16 Oct 2017

7 Tricks To Approach A Lady In Public And Win Her Heart.Number 3 And 5 Very Important

When it comes to approaching and toasting a lady,Some men are
naturally shy while some don't even know how to start.



The truth of the matter is, wooing a girl in public is simple and a
lot easier than when she's alone.


We have put this down to help you be a man that you are without mistakes Lol.

Please read carefully to the end.

1. Get out in public.You have to put yourself out there to meet girls.

Only approach a female aged 12-16 in a public setting. If you approach
a girl in a dimly-lit alleyway, an abandoned parking lots, or a
deserted subway station you will not be successful. Don't do it. Go to
a coffee shop. People come in and out all day. You'll be likely to see
more opportunities for conversation. Someplace that concerns an
interest you have, like a comic book store.
You are more likely to meet a girl that you are compatible with.

Bars and clubs. Remember to follow the steps below when approaching a
girl in a bar.
Not every girl is looking to be approached. Pay attention to body
language. It is also harder to carry on a conversation in this
environment.

Ensure the girl is old enough to be in the bar or club to avoid embarrasment.


2.Make Eye Contact:

If you see a girl you'd like to meet, try to make eye contact before
talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact.
If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign
that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might
signal that she's interested.

[1] Why are eyes so powerful?

Science
seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain's reward center,
the ventral striatum.

[2] What does this mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at
you is cause for celebration! Smile.

A friendly smile is a great way to show someone that you're interested
in them. If she returns the smile, that's a good sign that she might
be interested. Once you've exchanged a few glances and a smile, check
her body language. This will give you a better idea if she's actually
interested.


3. Check Body Language:

While reading another person's body language, male or female, is NOT
an exact science, there are definitely a few behaviors to look for
that will signal that the person is not interested in engaging in
conversation. Respect the girl's right to be left alone. Is she facing
away from you? Are her arms crossed?
Is she listening to music, or reading a book? Is she frowning?

Is she specifically looking away from you? While not perfect
indicators, expressions and body language like this probably means
leave her alone.

[3] Body language is not everything. Girls are taught from childhood
that they must be pleasant no matter what, apparently. If you are
going to approach her, pay attention to how she reacts and what she
says.

[4]4. Approach the girl you are interested in.Start with a simple
ice-breaker. Perhaps you are reading the same book, or you noticed she
was wearing a shirt that has a band you like. Perhaps the bus is late
and you can commiserate with her.

If she doesn't seem interested in talking, leave her alone. There are
numerous ways to tell: not making eye contact, monosyllabic answers,
looking around for some way out of the conversation. If she is
interested she will make that clear: eye contact, smiling, sometimes
leaning closer. Once you've approached and established that she's
interested, proceed to having a conversation.


5. Have a conversation.This might flow naturally out of your ice-
breaker comment, but if not there are several ways to have a
conversation. Ask her if she made her earrings/ dress/other cool
item. You could even say something like

"I couldn't help but noticing how your dress matches your eyes. It's a
great color." It lets her know that you think she's attractive without
dwelling on her looks. Like anyone else, girls like to be appreciated
for more than just their appearance. If you're in a place like a
bookstore or comic book store, ask her what her favorite book is.
Be sure to listen when she speaks.

6. Make future plans.If she seems interested and you are still
interested, try to make plans for a future meet-up. Give her your
phone number or email address. This way she feels in control of the
situation. You'll know for certain that she's interested if she
follows up. Ask for her phone number or email address. If she says
no, leave it. She doesn't owe you anything further, even if she did
enjoy your company. Ask her on an instant date. Ask her if she wants
to grab coffee somewhere. Always
choose a public place for an instant date; you want her to feel comfortable.

7. Be respectful.This is the absolute most important part of
approaching a girl in public, or in any situation. If she is not
interested back off. Remember, different girls have different
tastes in guys, or no taste in guys. One girl might just feel that
you're not her type. However, there might be another girl out there
who will think you're awesome

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